I have a nest, one sweet and little nest--
Not in the verdurous meads of mantling bloom;
Not in a sky lark's melodious breast;
Or in a bower thatched in winter's gloom.
Nor at the mighty hills of Parnassus,
Where all my sick and flimsy fancies stray;
Or at Apollo's gilded expanses,
Where numbness hold my senses from a lay;
Nor at the spangling boughs of laurel green,
Where glory weaves for me no diadem;
Or at these verses barren of a keen
And lasting luster of a time's gem:
I have my nest but in my sweet Love's heart,
Where love with love all merriments impart.
written by an unknown.....
LOVE SONNET.....Do You Like It?
Kay so. I like the sonnet.
ha. That's all I want to say about
it.
I wanted to ask you to read and answer
my writing peice. It's under my questions.
I really liked your answer to my poem, and
I'd like more criticism. If that's all right with
you? ;]
Reply:I liked the criticism of Diamond Dude and Oldbob very much...welcome both...and it is often adverse criticisms that make a man bend the right way...Thank you... Report It
Reply:Too many space-filling adjectives;
cherché and stuffy.
Otherwise a fine use of old
knowledge .
Most of the lines are in perfect
heroic-line form, and the rhymes
fit.
Find a more natural vernacular to replace
the offensive outreach of the second line.
Reply:This is a fledgling poet's effort at imitative creation - striving but failing to make the sonnet form work for them; by virtue of not employing the techniques a sonneteer would use to their advantage. For example, allowing enjambment to create its own tension from line to line, nor imagery that takes life by the throat (to coin another poet). This poet is also feckless at handling imagery and juxtaposing sounds that catch the ear or the eye.
Friday, May 21, 2010
You Know You're a Drunkard When; (Part 1 of 3)?
I spent most of my life drunk, trying to get a drink or doing time for stuff that happened when drunk. That was then; I haven't had a drink, or anything else, since 12/5/95! The drink is a metaphor for all the other stuff I did in my misspent youth, middle age, etc.!
I DON'T DRINK NO MORE
By WILLY 11/24/04 9:30 p.m. G-Harp, Key of D, Slow Shuffle
I started drinking as a child
Uncles gin and Camels was my style
I slept it off then; was too young to go wild!
I drank to get incoherent
The older I got wilder I went
I'd go to a bar with money leave without a cent!
(Spoken: And wonder who left the dents? In my car, head, etc.?)
(Chorus)
To me I'll just have one drink today
Is like sayin, I'll only stick it in half way!
When I start drinkin ain't no way to stop
Which is how I got to know a few cops!
I got tired of being on the outside of open doors
And being wounded though I never been to war
All of this and more is why I don't drink no more!
I now know that I can't take even one sip
Some say you can't teach a dog new tricks
I'll bet ya the dog never woke up with a fat lip!
(Spoken: And not able to remember who or why it's there!)
(Chorus)
To me I'll just have one drink today
Is like sayin, I'll only stick it in half way!
When I start drinkin ain't no way to stop
Which is how I got to know a few cops!
At a bar I'd tell the tender; shut up and pour
I need a drink to relax just makes me snore
I drank to get drunk; but I don't drink no more!!!...
@2004 Willy Senkiwsky
"The Blues are the roots, and the other music is the fruits." One of Willie Dixon's favorite sayings, from I Am the Blues by Willie Dixon with Don Snowden (DaCapo, 1989)
"Life is like music, it must be composed by ear, feeling and instinct, not by rule. Nevertheless one had better know the rules, for they sometimes guide in doubtful cases, though not often." --Samuel Butler (1612-80), English poet, Author'
"Simple music is the hardest music to play and blues is simple music." --Albert Collins
Willys cynical thought for the day;
Everybody keeps saying that women are smarter than men, but did you ever see
a man wearing a shirt that buttons down the freaking back?
You Know You're a Drunkard When;
If a party runs out of booze, you sock the host and drink his nosebleed.
Your wife asks you to pick up a canned ham, and you show up with a case of Hamm's in cans.
Interventions have become so frequent that you just leave the folding chairs set up in your living room.
The arresting officer tells you that you have the right to remain silent and you waive that right so you can finish singing Enter Sandman.
You know how to say "Where are my pants?" in seven languages.
You have a lot of respect for that 80-year-old guy at the end of the bar, but you know from experience that he's a dirty fighter.
You go on week-long benders just so you'll have a cool story to tell at your AA meetings.
You got in a fist fight with a wino over how long a bottle of Thunderbird should be allowed to "breathe".
You're willing to go on the wagon, so long as it's heading for a bar.
You got pissed off when you forgot whatever you were drinking to forget.
You have so much alcohol in your system that your cabbie has to be HazMat certified.
If a wino jumped off a building, you'd bravely leap forward to break the fall of his bottle.
You install shag carpet because it's easier to hang on to.
Embalming fluid would be an improvement.
Your last Breathalyzer reading was "No ******* Way."
Distilleries fight over the billboard nearest to your place of residence.
The state has installed a Breathalyzer interlock device on your shoes.
You drew up a living will that states very clearly that you do not want the booze tube removed under any circumstances.
Your friends often substitute "Good night" with "Hey, you can't sleep here."
When you donate blood they store it in oak barrels.
You openly commit crimes just to learn new pruno recipes.
Your name is police code for Public Intoxication.
You're fairly sure a letter to Dear Abby signed "Want to Leave the Bum, But Can't" was written by your liver.
Your favorite drinking game is Do a Shot Every Time You Do a Shot.
Your idea of a seven-course meal is a six-pack and a pizza.
TV beer ads have started addressing you by name.
Someone offers you palm wine and you think they're out of glassware.
You brush your teeth with bourbon. It hasn't helped cut down on cavities, but who cares?
When a panhandler asks, "Can you give me a quarter for some beer?" you reply, "Okay, but I want to taste it first."
You know heavy drinking makes you smarter because you can never remember doing anything stupid while blacked out.
You have a split personality-every time you meet someone with booze you want to split it with them.
You were so drunk at the office Xmas party that you kissed your own wife.
You've never been to Afghanistan or Pakistan, but you're a frequent visitor to Imtoodrunktostan.
You become sexually aroused by the tapping of a keg.
You know you can use Jagermeister as cough syrup. And visa versa.
Your 86s are passed down to your grandchildren.
You have a sweet tooth for alcohol-in fact, your whole mouth likes it.
You spill so much booze at home your dog slurs his barks.
Your credit history is composed entirely of bar tabs.
When you get a cold you get a bottle of whiskey, do shots, and it's gone - not the cold, the whiskey.
You're always shaking hands, even when there's no one else around.
Whenever you bend your elbow your mouth snaps open.
When your boss asks you to work overtime you demand time and a fifth.
You get held up almost every time you go home - in fact it's the only way you can get home.
You'd be happy to go on the wagon if you could find one with a bar.
Your favorite bar is four blocks away - six blocks coming back.
When you order a hound for the rouse.
The Red Cross uses your blood to sterilize their instruments.
You're half scotch, and your ancestors aren't from Scotland.
You know how to handle your liquor - with both hands.
You hate the very sight of liquor, which is why you hide it in your stomach.
You can tell what bar you're in by the bottoms of their tables.
A liter of scotch isn't enough to invite a friend over for a drink.
Your first science fair project was a still.
You know most of the people in a bar and can't remember one of their names.
Anyone who kisses you must legally wait half an hour to drive.
They have to mix your blood with tonic water before giving it to anyone.
You've filed assault charges against a coffee table.
When you're out in the street, you are literally "out" in the street.
You think of drinking beer as "sobering up,"
You can say "Whiskey, please" in 34 languages, but can't understand "Last call" in English.
Your liver takes sides against you during an intervention.
You know better than going near an open flame while you're bleeding.
Your bed looks a helluva lot like a park bench, and your bedroom looks a helluva lot like a park.
You need a blood transfusion to legally enter a dry county.
Your flask is spring-loaded.
You judge cologne by its bouquet and finish.
Your liver is in the Federal Witness Protection Program.
You enjoy cooking with wine, and sometimes you even put it in the food.
You've only been drunk once in your life, and so far it's lasted twenty-three years.
You liver has a restraining order on you.
You can tell the difference between a bottle of Jack and a bottle of Jim by the sound they make hitting the back of your head.
Alcoholism doesn't run in your family-it takes its own sweet time.
You've been cut off during communion.
You wonder why they call it Southern Comfort when they know damn well there is nothing comfortable about being handcuffed in the back of a squad car.
Growing-up means buying better booze, getting older means getting used to the cheap stuff again.
You miss the old days when you were younger than the cop that finds you sleeping in a dumpster.
You were excited about the Olsen twins turning "legal" until you realized they still aren't old enough to buy you a drink.
You resent it when people call you a raving alcoholic, because you've never been to a rave in your life.
You keep a bottle of liquor next to your bed so you can have breakfast in bed when you wake up.
You consider anything less than 80 proof a chaser.
You've eaten 87 packets of honey mustard because on the label it lists "white wine" as an ingredient.
You have convinced yourself that you're not drinking alone so long as your friends Jack, Jim and Johnnie are over.
Your wardrobe is divided into Summer, Winter and Things You Woke Up Wearing. The third category includes a number of thongs.
Your BAC is measured in proof.
You measure time by drinks, as in: "Hold on a shot, the movie doesn't start for another four bourbons."
To you "Last call!" sounds just like "Please don't leave! We love you and you're charming wit!"
You don't use cologne or aftershave because you have a moral objection to alcohol going anywhere but down your throat.
You'd exercise more but when you sweat it smells like booze and that makes you thirsty.
You always finish your drinks because there are sober people in China.
When you come home to find your house burglarized the first thing you check is your liquor cabinet.
You'll join A.A. when they start serving cocktails at the meetings.
Your ATM is a Dumpster full of recyclable cans.
You'll sleep through a train wreck, yet spring awake to the sound of a bottle top turning.
You can order a beer in 17 different languages but don't know how to pronounce "Perrier."
When a cop asks, "Have we been drinking?" you reply, "Do you really think I'd drink with the likes of you?"
You freak out when you wake up in your own bed.
You'd have passed the sobriety test if you hadn't mistaken the Breathalyzer for a bugle.
Your waking thought is, "Wow, look at all the gum stuck to the bottom of the table."
You got in trouble at work because your standard greeting is, "Hey, let's do a shot!"
You cursed the St. Bernard who rescued you because he had the nerve to bring only one lousy liter of brandy.
You can hear someone whisper "free beer" from three blocks away.
You consider a bottle of cheap whiskey and two shot glasses a very romantic gift.
You hate it when men give you flowers because, hey-you can't drink flowers.
You dream of the beautiful day when all races, religions, creeds and colors finally get it together and pitch in to buy you a case of decent scotch.
You show up to brewery tours wearing fins and a snorkel.
You tell your friends your dog's name is "Time for a Beer Run" but you call him "Hurry Up."
The tooth fairy left you shots of Rumpleminze.
You've convinced yourself your liver isn't distended-it's pregnant. With a new liver.
You play the same song 20 times in a row at top volume at three in the morning and are certain the neighbors don't mind because, you know, it's such a kick-*** song.
You think the porcelain hat looks good on you.
Your idea of karaoke is falling off the stage while yelling "Rock and roll!" into the microphone.
Your house is four times farther from the bar on the way back.
Your alarm clock is synchronized with the nearest liquor store's opening time.
You have threatened to murder and marry the same person in the span of a single happy hour.
You are the answer to the question, "What kind of idiot pukes in a bidet?"
While in the drunk tank your friends tried to sneak you a fifth of Beam in a cake.
You're personal trainer is a bartender.
You've known Jack Daniels so long you refer to him as John.
You watch Behind the Music and think "That's really not that much alcohol."
The bartender is in the weeds and you're the only person in the bar.
You refuse to play Golden Tee because there is no beer cart girl.
Think box wine is great; eagerly awaiting box whiskey.
You get cut off in absentia.
You won't rent an apartment that doesn't have a bar and liquor store within two blocks.
You're favorite cocktail is one quarter vodka, one quarter vodka, one half vodka and topped up with vodka.
You get angry when guys who can't hold their liquor keep stepping on your fingers.
You get nervous when there are only three bottles of liquor left in your house.
You forget how pants work.
http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblu...
You Know You're a Drunkard When; (Part 1 of 3)?
Congratulations on your 10 + years of Sobriety.
( a few of them made me giggle, but it's scary if you live you life like that. )
Reply:That's some funny sheet! *having some Shiner Bock, not bad for Texas beer!* Report It
Reply:get a life Report It
Reply:You should work on one-liners!!
Reply:i have just no time to read your essay!!
Reply:i'll read all that eventually...
flower arrangements
I DON'T DRINK NO MORE
By WILLY 11/24/04 9:30 p.m. G-Harp, Key of D, Slow Shuffle
I started drinking as a child
Uncles gin and Camels was my style
I slept it off then; was too young to go wild!
I drank to get incoherent
The older I got wilder I went
I'd go to a bar with money leave without a cent!
(Spoken: And wonder who left the dents? In my car, head, etc.?)
(Chorus)
To me I'll just have one drink today
Is like sayin, I'll only stick it in half way!
When I start drinkin ain't no way to stop
Which is how I got to know a few cops!
I got tired of being on the outside of open doors
And being wounded though I never been to war
All of this and more is why I don't drink no more!
I now know that I can't take even one sip
Some say you can't teach a dog new tricks
I'll bet ya the dog never woke up with a fat lip!
(Spoken: And not able to remember who or why it's there!)
(Chorus)
To me I'll just have one drink today
Is like sayin, I'll only stick it in half way!
When I start drinkin ain't no way to stop
Which is how I got to know a few cops!
At a bar I'd tell the tender; shut up and pour
I need a drink to relax just makes me snore
I drank to get drunk; but I don't drink no more!!!...
@2004 Willy Senkiwsky
"The Blues are the roots, and the other music is the fruits." One of Willie Dixon's favorite sayings, from I Am the Blues by Willie Dixon with Don Snowden (DaCapo, 1989)
"Life is like music, it must be composed by ear, feeling and instinct, not by rule. Nevertheless one had better know the rules, for they sometimes guide in doubtful cases, though not often." --Samuel Butler (1612-80), English poet, Author'
"Simple music is the hardest music to play and blues is simple music." --Albert Collins
Willys cynical thought for the day;
Everybody keeps saying that women are smarter than men, but did you ever see
a man wearing a shirt that buttons down the freaking back?
You Know You're a Drunkard When;
If a party runs out of booze, you sock the host and drink his nosebleed.
Your wife asks you to pick up a canned ham, and you show up with a case of Hamm's in cans.
Interventions have become so frequent that you just leave the folding chairs set up in your living room.
The arresting officer tells you that you have the right to remain silent and you waive that right so you can finish singing Enter Sandman.
You know how to say "Where are my pants?" in seven languages.
You have a lot of respect for that 80-year-old guy at the end of the bar, but you know from experience that he's a dirty fighter.
You go on week-long benders just so you'll have a cool story to tell at your AA meetings.
You got in a fist fight with a wino over how long a bottle of Thunderbird should be allowed to "breathe".
You're willing to go on the wagon, so long as it's heading for a bar.
You got pissed off when you forgot whatever you were drinking to forget.
You have so much alcohol in your system that your cabbie has to be HazMat certified.
If a wino jumped off a building, you'd bravely leap forward to break the fall of his bottle.
You install shag carpet because it's easier to hang on to.
Embalming fluid would be an improvement.
Your last Breathalyzer reading was "No ******* Way."
Distilleries fight over the billboard nearest to your place of residence.
The state has installed a Breathalyzer interlock device on your shoes.
You drew up a living will that states very clearly that you do not want the booze tube removed under any circumstances.
Your friends often substitute "Good night" with "Hey, you can't sleep here."
When you donate blood they store it in oak barrels.
You openly commit crimes just to learn new pruno recipes.
Your name is police code for Public Intoxication.
You're fairly sure a letter to Dear Abby signed "Want to Leave the Bum, But Can't" was written by your liver.
Your favorite drinking game is Do a Shot Every Time You Do a Shot.
Your idea of a seven-course meal is a six-pack and a pizza.
TV beer ads have started addressing you by name.
Someone offers you palm wine and you think they're out of glassware.
You brush your teeth with bourbon. It hasn't helped cut down on cavities, but who cares?
When a panhandler asks, "Can you give me a quarter for some beer?" you reply, "Okay, but I want to taste it first."
You know heavy drinking makes you smarter because you can never remember doing anything stupid while blacked out.
You have a split personality-every time you meet someone with booze you want to split it with them.
You were so drunk at the office Xmas party that you kissed your own wife.
You've never been to Afghanistan or Pakistan, but you're a frequent visitor to Imtoodrunktostan.
You become sexually aroused by the tapping of a keg.
You know you can use Jagermeister as cough syrup. And visa versa.
Your 86s are passed down to your grandchildren.
You have a sweet tooth for alcohol-in fact, your whole mouth likes it.
You spill so much booze at home your dog slurs his barks.
Your credit history is composed entirely of bar tabs.
When you get a cold you get a bottle of whiskey, do shots, and it's gone - not the cold, the whiskey.
You're always shaking hands, even when there's no one else around.
Whenever you bend your elbow your mouth snaps open.
When your boss asks you to work overtime you demand time and a fifth.
You get held up almost every time you go home - in fact it's the only way you can get home.
You'd be happy to go on the wagon if you could find one with a bar.
Your favorite bar is four blocks away - six blocks coming back.
When you order a hound for the rouse.
The Red Cross uses your blood to sterilize their instruments.
You're half scotch, and your ancestors aren't from Scotland.
You know how to handle your liquor - with both hands.
You hate the very sight of liquor, which is why you hide it in your stomach.
You can tell what bar you're in by the bottoms of their tables.
A liter of scotch isn't enough to invite a friend over for a drink.
Your first science fair project was a still.
You know most of the people in a bar and can't remember one of their names.
Anyone who kisses you must legally wait half an hour to drive.
They have to mix your blood with tonic water before giving it to anyone.
You've filed assault charges against a coffee table.
When you're out in the street, you are literally "out" in the street.
You think of drinking beer as "sobering up,"
You can say "Whiskey, please" in 34 languages, but can't understand "Last call" in English.
Your liver takes sides against you during an intervention.
You know better than going near an open flame while you're bleeding.
Your bed looks a helluva lot like a park bench, and your bedroom looks a helluva lot like a park.
You need a blood transfusion to legally enter a dry county.
Your flask is spring-loaded.
You judge cologne by its bouquet and finish.
Your liver is in the Federal Witness Protection Program.
You enjoy cooking with wine, and sometimes you even put it in the food.
You've only been drunk once in your life, and so far it's lasted twenty-three years.
You liver has a restraining order on you.
You can tell the difference between a bottle of Jack and a bottle of Jim by the sound they make hitting the back of your head.
Alcoholism doesn't run in your family-it takes its own sweet time.
You've been cut off during communion.
You wonder why they call it Southern Comfort when they know damn well there is nothing comfortable about being handcuffed in the back of a squad car.
Growing-up means buying better booze, getting older means getting used to the cheap stuff again.
You miss the old days when you were younger than the cop that finds you sleeping in a dumpster.
You were excited about the Olsen twins turning "legal" until you realized they still aren't old enough to buy you a drink.
You resent it when people call you a raving alcoholic, because you've never been to a rave in your life.
You keep a bottle of liquor next to your bed so you can have breakfast in bed when you wake up.
You consider anything less than 80 proof a chaser.
You've eaten 87 packets of honey mustard because on the label it lists "white wine" as an ingredient.
You have convinced yourself that you're not drinking alone so long as your friends Jack, Jim and Johnnie are over.
Your wardrobe is divided into Summer, Winter and Things You Woke Up Wearing. The third category includes a number of thongs.
Your BAC is measured in proof.
You measure time by drinks, as in: "Hold on a shot, the movie doesn't start for another four bourbons."
To you "Last call!" sounds just like "Please don't leave! We love you and you're charming wit!"
You don't use cologne or aftershave because you have a moral objection to alcohol going anywhere but down your throat.
You'd exercise more but when you sweat it smells like booze and that makes you thirsty.
You always finish your drinks because there are sober people in China.
When you come home to find your house burglarized the first thing you check is your liquor cabinet.
You'll join A.A. when they start serving cocktails at the meetings.
Your ATM is a Dumpster full of recyclable cans.
You'll sleep through a train wreck, yet spring awake to the sound of a bottle top turning.
You can order a beer in 17 different languages but don't know how to pronounce "Perrier."
When a cop asks, "Have we been drinking?" you reply, "Do you really think I'd drink with the likes of you?"
You freak out when you wake up in your own bed.
You'd have passed the sobriety test if you hadn't mistaken the Breathalyzer for a bugle.
Your waking thought is, "Wow, look at all the gum stuck to the bottom of the table."
You got in trouble at work because your standard greeting is, "Hey, let's do a shot!"
You cursed the St. Bernard who rescued you because he had the nerve to bring only one lousy liter of brandy.
You can hear someone whisper "free beer" from three blocks away.
You consider a bottle of cheap whiskey and two shot glasses a very romantic gift.
You hate it when men give you flowers because, hey-you can't drink flowers.
You dream of the beautiful day when all races, religions, creeds and colors finally get it together and pitch in to buy you a case of decent scotch.
You show up to brewery tours wearing fins and a snorkel.
You tell your friends your dog's name is "Time for a Beer Run" but you call him "Hurry Up."
The tooth fairy left you shots of Rumpleminze.
You've convinced yourself your liver isn't distended-it's pregnant. With a new liver.
You play the same song 20 times in a row at top volume at three in the morning and are certain the neighbors don't mind because, you know, it's such a kick-*** song.
You think the porcelain hat looks good on you.
Your idea of karaoke is falling off the stage while yelling "Rock and roll!" into the microphone.
Your house is four times farther from the bar on the way back.
Your alarm clock is synchronized with the nearest liquor store's opening time.
You have threatened to murder and marry the same person in the span of a single happy hour.
You are the answer to the question, "What kind of idiot pukes in a bidet?"
While in the drunk tank your friends tried to sneak you a fifth of Beam in a cake.
You're personal trainer is a bartender.
You've known Jack Daniels so long you refer to him as John.
You watch Behind the Music and think "That's really not that much alcohol."
The bartender is in the weeds and you're the only person in the bar.
You refuse to play Golden Tee because there is no beer cart girl.
Think box wine is great; eagerly awaiting box whiskey.
You get cut off in absentia.
You won't rent an apartment that doesn't have a bar and liquor store within two blocks.
You're favorite cocktail is one quarter vodka, one quarter vodka, one half vodka and topped up with vodka.
You get angry when guys who can't hold their liquor keep stepping on your fingers.
You get nervous when there are only three bottles of liquor left in your house.
You forget how pants work.
http://www.total-knowledge.com/~willyblu...
You Know You're a Drunkard When; (Part 1 of 3)?
Congratulations on your 10 + years of Sobriety.
( a few of them made me giggle, but it's scary if you live you life like that. )
Reply:That's some funny sheet! *having some Shiner Bock, not bad for Texas beer!* Report It
Reply:get a life Report It
Reply:You should work on one-liners!!
Reply:i have just no time to read your essay!!
Reply:i'll read all that eventually...
flower arrangements
Is she a bad friend?
I really liked this guy, and my friend tried to help me to be with him. My friend would give me advice on what to do and stuff. But behind my back, I found out that she would walk home with him and stuff, and during winter one day she told him that she was "cold" and because he is so sweet, he gave her his jacket. She also told my best friend that she had a crush on him but not to tell me about it. I hate it, I introduced her to him and ever since then she is always flirting with him and giving him cutesy nicknames. SHE ALSO ALWAYS RUNS UP TO HIM AND HUGS HIM IN FRONT OF ME! (and i dont say anything).She would try to set me up with him and stuff...but once I caught her flirting with him, and I kinda got mad and I said loudly to her when i thought he was gone "what were you saying to him?!". And then he actually did hear, and after he told her that he didn't like me anymore because he thought i was the jealous type. I really think i would have been with him if it wasn't for her?
Is she a bad friend?
She is not your friend! Stop wasteing your time being bothered with the both of them. If she was your true friend she would of not flirted with him while knowing that you liked him. And if he really liked you, he would of figured out a way to tell you so. They are both losers and deserve each other. Laugh about it and go on with your life!
Reply:That not who you would call a friend that a back stabber. Your friend liked him from the beginning, she wanted him especially after you say you liked him, she was the jealous one. She the kind of friend, that who have been telling him all kind of bad things about you, so she can get with him. Well you know next time if you are interesting in a guy, don't used your friend to relate message to that person.
Reply:Hmmmmmm, she sounds kind of shady to me. Unless she is just a usually affectionate, touchy feely type, then I would watch my back with her. I don't know how old you all are, but maybe you should catch him when he's alone, and tell him that you'd like to talk to him. Maybe you could explain to him that you really did like him and that you asked your friend to act on your behalf because you were kind of shy, but then you found out that she likes him too and it was really more that you were upset that she hadn't been honest with you as a friend, rather than being labeled the "jealous type". No matter how much you like him, he may be the type that is more interested in a "flirty" or aggressive type of girl. Or he may be understanding and pay more attention to your friends behaviors. I would also talk to my friend if I were you. Tell her that you don't appreciate her dishonesty. Friendship has to be based on mutual trust and respect. If she's telling you one thing, then doing other things behind your back, that's no good. But in her defense, having things in common is probably what made you friends, and unfortunately in this case, you have the same taste in men in common. She may not have intentionally been doing anything wrong, but once she realized she liked him too, she should have told you, or limited the amount of time she was around him. She sounds like she has a hidden agenda. Hope it works out, with the guy and your friend!
Reply:i feel so sorry for you. she tries to be a good friend by giving you the advice but is such a bad friend doing all these stuff. this is a situation i dont know a way to help out. hope the other advice help.......
Reply:that is a bad friend, besides if he liked u then he would have flirted with u.
Is she a bad friend?
She is not your friend! Stop wasteing your time being bothered with the both of them. If she was your true friend she would of not flirted with him while knowing that you liked him. And if he really liked you, he would of figured out a way to tell you so. They are both losers and deserve each other. Laugh about it and go on with your life!
Reply:That not who you would call a friend that a back stabber. Your friend liked him from the beginning, she wanted him especially after you say you liked him, she was the jealous one. She the kind of friend, that who have been telling him all kind of bad things about you, so she can get with him. Well you know next time if you are interesting in a guy, don't used your friend to relate message to that person.
Reply:Hmmmmmm, she sounds kind of shady to me. Unless she is just a usually affectionate, touchy feely type, then I would watch my back with her. I don't know how old you all are, but maybe you should catch him when he's alone, and tell him that you'd like to talk to him. Maybe you could explain to him that you really did like him and that you asked your friend to act on your behalf because you were kind of shy, but then you found out that she likes him too and it was really more that you were upset that she hadn't been honest with you as a friend, rather than being labeled the "jealous type". No matter how much you like him, he may be the type that is more interested in a "flirty" or aggressive type of girl. Or he may be understanding and pay more attention to your friends behaviors. I would also talk to my friend if I were you. Tell her that you don't appreciate her dishonesty. Friendship has to be based on mutual trust and respect. If she's telling you one thing, then doing other things behind your back, that's no good. But in her defense, having things in common is probably what made you friends, and unfortunately in this case, you have the same taste in men in common. She may not have intentionally been doing anything wrong, but once she realized she liked him too, she should have told you, or limited the amount of time she was around him. She sounds like she has a hidden agenda. Hope it works out, with the guy and your friend!
Reply:i feel so sorry for you. she tries to be a good friend by giving you the advice but is such a bad friend doing all these stuff. this is a situation i dont know a way to help out. hope the other advice help.......
Reply:that is a bad friend, besides if he liked u then he would have flirted with u.
Abstract, what does this mean?
Now my co- mates and brothers in exile,
Hath not old custom made this life more sweet
Than that painted pomp? Are not these woods
More free form peril that the envious court?
Here feel we not the penalty of Adam,
The seasons’ difference, as the icy fang
And churlish chiding of the winter wind,
Which when it bites and blows upon my body
Even ‘til I shrink with cold, I smile and say
“This is no flattery; these are counselors
That feelingly persuade mw what I am.”
Sweet are the uses of adversity,
Which, like the toad, ugly and venomous,
Wears yet a precious jewel in its head;
And this our life, exempt from public haunt,
Finds tongues in trees, book in running brooks,
Sermons in stones, and good in everything.
Do you know who wrote this ? Or where this comes from ?
Moreover, what is being said besides exile?. Does it also talks about things with deeper meanings ?.
Any contribution will be appreciated.
Abstract, what does this mean?
this comes from "As you like it"
meaning:
These lines, spoken by Duke Senior upon his introduction in Act II, scene i, establish the pastoral mode of the play. With great economy, Shakespeare draws a dividing line between the “painted pomp” of court—with perils great enough to drive the duke and his followers into exile—and the safe and restorative Forest of Ardenne .The woods are romanticized, as they typically are in pastoral literature, and the mood is set for the remainder of the play. Although perils may present themselves, they remain distant, and, in the end, there truly is “good in everything” . This passage, more than any other in the play, presents the conceits of the pastoral mode. Here, the corruptions of life at court are left behind in order to learn the simple and valuable lessons of the country. Shakespeare highlights the educational, edifying, and enlightening nature of this foray into the woods by employing language that invokes the classroom, the library, and the church: in the trees, brooks, and stones surrounding him, the duke finds tongues, books, and sermons. As is his wont, Shakespeare goes on to complicate the literary conventions upon which he depends. His shepherds and shepherdesses, for instance, ultimately prove too lovesick or dim-witted to dole out the kind of wisdom the pastoral form demands of them, but for now Shakespeare merely sets up the opposition between city and country that provides the necessary tension to drive his story forward.
Hath not old custom made this life more sweet
Than that painted pomp? Are not these woods
More free form peril that the envious court?
Here feel we not the penalty of Adam,
The seasons’ difference, as the icy fang
And churlish chiding of the winter wind,
Which when it bites and blows upon my body
Even ‘til I shrink with cold, I smile and say
“This is no flattery; these are counselors
That feelingly persuade mw what I am.”
Sweet are the uses of adversity,
Which, like the toad, ugly and venomous,
Wears yet a precious jewel in its head;
And this our life, exempt from public haunt,
Finds tongues in trees, book in running brooks,
Sermons in stones, and good in everything.
Do you know who wrote this ? Or where this comes from ?
Moreover, what is being said besides exile?. Does it also talks about things with deeper meanings ?.
Any contribution will be appreciated.
Abstract, what does this mean?
this comes from "As you like it"
meaning:
These lines, spoken by Duke Senior upon his introduction in Act II, scene i, establish the pastoral mode of the play. With great economy, Shakespeare draws a dividing line between the “painted pomp” of court—with perils great enough to drive the duke and his followers into exile—and the safe and restorative Forest of Ardenne .The woods are romanticized, as they typically are in pastoral literature, and the mood is set for the remainder of the play. Although perils may present themselves, they remain distant, and, in the end, there truly is “good in everything” . This passage, more than any other in the play, presents the conceits of the pastoral mode. Here, the corruptions of life at court are left behind in order to learn the simple and valuable lessons of the country. Shakespeare highlights the educational, edifying, and enlightening nature of this foray into the woods by employing language that invokes the classroom, the library, and the church: in the trees, brooks, and stones surrounding him, the duke finds tongues, books, and sermons. As is his wont, Shakespeare goes on to complicate the literary conventions upon which he depends. His shepherds and shepherdesses, for instance, ultimately prove too lovesick or dim-witted to dole out the kind of wisdom the pastoral form demands of them, but for now Shakespeare merely sets up the opposition between city and country that provides the necessary tension to drive his story forward.
REfinishing a deck questions Please advise..?
Last summer I refinished my deck (15ish years old)
I power washed the whole deck and belt sanded certain areas that needed it...I put on a sealer/waterproofing a few coats and a little more in some areas. I used a thick roller for decks and brushed corners/railings etc..
It looked and felt great!
I went out and looked at the deck after an East Coast winter (real cold) The finish has 'peeled up' in a lot of spaces...
Whole pieces of the finish are just peeling up..
Where do I go wrong?
THe wood is a little old and has hairline cracks throughout
Could this have let moisture through the winter?
Did I put to many coats down of the finish?
Should I have brushed the whole deck?
Please, any help would be sweet !
THis project killed my back and I wanna do it right next time.
Thanx!
REfinishing a deck questions Please advise..?
i think it was the delivery....try spraying the waterproofing...we live in the midwest and have never had a peeling incident
Reply:My husband said you put the waterproofing on too thick. You are supposed to let it soak into the wood. Make sure you are using the right stuff.
Reply:I am in Alabama so I don't have experience with really cold winters. I have a very large deck around half of my house. It's 14 X 60 or so and another 8 X 40 or so. I didn't use anything except a good grade of oil base porch and deck paint. I do have lots of heat in the summer and have to paint again every several years.
I really don't think you can apply too much water sealer. I think the problem is using a paint that will adhere to the wood after using the sealer. Again, I'm not familiar with extreme cold. I suggest that you talk to someone at a paint store, not Walmart to get suggestions. Good luck.
Reply:You poor fool! First off...move the hell away from the East Coast...say to a warmer climate like New Mexico. Those Nor' East'ers are a *****! Wood likes to expand and shrink in extreme temps, so unless you stained you deck in overcast 70 degree weather, it dosn't surprize me that it chipped and peeled. Also, you need more than just a sealer...you needed a semi-transparent stain that penetrates the wood. Even then you needed a second coat two weeks later and then plan on an every year maintinance. Next time buy Trex Deck!
I power washed the whole deck and belt sanded certain areas that needed it...I put on a sealer/waterproofing a few coats and a little more in some areas. I used a thick roller for decks and brushed corners/railings etc..
It looked and felt great!
I went out and looked at the deck after an East Coast winter (real cold) The finish has 'peeled up' in a lot of spaces...
Whole pieces of the finish are just peeling up..
Where do I go wrong?
THe wood is a little old and has hairline cracks throughout
Could this have let moisture through the winter?
Did I put to many coats down of the finish?
Should I have brushed the whole deck?
Please, any help would be sweet !
THis project killed my back and I wanna do it right next time.
Thanx!
REfinishing a deck questions Please advise..?
i think it was the delivery....try spraying the waterproofing...we live in the midwest and have never had a peeling incident
Reply:My husband said you put the waterproofing on too thick. You are supposed to let it soak into the wood. Make sure you are using the right stuff.
Reply:I am in Alabama so I don't have experience with really cold winters. I have a very large deck around half of my house. It's 14 X 60 or so and another 8 X 40 or so. I didn't use anything except a good grade of oil base porch and deck paint. I do have lots of heat in the summer and have to paint again every several years.
I really don't think you can apply too much water sealer. I think the problem is using a paint that will adhere to the wood after using the sealer. Again, I'm not familiar with extreme cold. I suggest that you talk to someone at a paint store, not Walmart to get suggestions. Good luck.
Reply:You poor fool! First off...move the hell away from the East Coast...say to a warmer climate like New Mexico. Those Nor' East'ers are a *****! Wood likes to expand and shrink in extreme temps, so unless you stained you deck in overcast 70 degree weather, it dosn't surprize me that it chipped and peeled. Also, you need more than just a sealer...you needed a semi-transparent stain that penetrates the wood. Even then you needed a second coat two weeks later and then plan on an every year maintinance. Next time buy Trex Deck!
For people who know about animal (dog) behavior?
I have a chow/lab mix female dog who just turned 3. I adopted her from the SPCA when she was 6-8 weeks old. She is an inside outside dog. I mean durring the summertime, she usually stays outside because she likes it, plus she sheds horribly. But durring the winter months we bring her in out of the cold to live. In May we moved to a new house and decided to keep her outside for now because we had a baby on the way who was due in June. So she has been living outside since May and we just brought her in yesterday to live inside for the winter since its getting so cold. We my babu is now 6 months old and I have questons about my dogs behavior toward my son. The dog has acted a little jelous toward him of course which i feel is normal. But she also has been standing over him.. When i put him in the floor to play, she just stands there over him and looks around.. Is this a jelousy thing or could it be a "protective" thing... She is a sweet dog. She always has beebn. She listens good, she
For people who know about animal (dog) behavior?
Your dog is trying to show its dominance. Your dog obviously knows that this baby is a new addition and so feels it must be more dominant. Dont put ur baby in a position where the dog can display this behaviour. Make sure the child is higher than the dog. Always give the baby more attention than the dog. Ur dog has to understand it is not more dominant than ur baby.
Its important to make sure u train ur dog in some basic obediance - sit, etc. This comes in handy when controlling a dog around a small child. Teach ur dog to lie down when the baby is near her, so that she is not so threatening.
Otherwise, she sounds like a lovely dog and those 2 will get a long well.
Reply:if she isn't harming him then she is probably curious of him because you are like her mother - she is worried of him possibly harming you or taking you away from her.
or there is the suggestion that she has grown to like him and doesn't want any harm to come to him. but suggestion 1 is more likely
Reply:For starters Chows typically do not like kids. I've had chow for 35years and my friend breeds them. Only a trainer observing, can get a fair idea on the purpose of the standing over the baby. Keeping it outside for the few months did not help. He will have some jealousy it is natural. Fortunately he has Lab in him so there shouldn't be a concern. Chows are very protective of their family but right now he probably does not know the baby is family since he was kept outside. Likely he is trying to figure out what this new noisy thing is and why it took his place in the home. Do not leave them alone and I would recommend not allowing it to stand over the baby. But as well do not push it away or yell at it when it gets close. Allow it to sniff and lick a little and then say 'enough' and have it stop. Play it safe since NO ONE can say for sure what is going on in it's head.
Reply:Congrads on the birth of your son.
She sees you being protective of the baby so she's most likely following your cue and being protective as well. At the same time it's not a behavior I would want to encourage. Your dog needs to see the baby as another alpha and being allowed to stand over the baby while the baby lays on the floor could possibly be teaching the dog that she is the alpha.
Just my opinion and I am sure you will get lots of good advice on this question. Good luck.
Reply:I'm not sure what is going on but sounds like she's mothering your son. My dogs do that when there is a baby in the house. If someone they don't know comes around the baby they can become protective. We also took precautions when our children were born. Our dogs stayed inside the house and very much stayed a part of the family. My dad had brought a dirty diaper home from the hospital so they could get her scent. My dogs were very protective
Reply:Without actually seeing her, it is impossible to say for sure.
If you are concerned, I suggest you have an experienced trainer or behaviorist observe her.
Reply:She could be protecting him but, honestly, without seeing what's happening it's hard to tell. Since the safety of your baby is involved, I'd suggest that you have a trainer observe the dog with your child to either put your mind at ease or head off a problem before it becomes unmanageable.
Reply:I agree with the answers that you have gotten regarding it is hard to tell what your dog is doing if we are not there, however in the wild, an Alpha wolf will stand over a sub wolf to show dominance!! Is your dog really standing OVER your son?/ That MIGHT be a dominance issue.
flower
For people who know about animal (dog) behavior?
Your dog is trying to show its dominance. Your dog obviously knows that this baby is a new addition and so feels it must be more dominant. Dont put ur baby in a position where the dog can display this behaviour. Make sure the child is higher than the dog. Always give the baby more attention than the dog. Ur dog has to understand it is not more dominant than ur baby.
Its important to make sure u train ur dog in some basic obediance - sit, etc. This comes in handy when controlling a dog around a small child. Teach ur dog to lie down when the baby is near her, so that she is not so threatening.
Otherwise, she sounds like a lovely dog and those 2 will get a long well.
Reply:if she isn't harming him then she is probably curious of him because you are like her mother - she is worried of him possibly harming you or taking you away from her.
or there is the suggestion that she has grown to like him and doesn't want any harm to come to him. but suggestion 1 is more likely
Reply:For starters Chows typically do not like kids. I've had chow for 35years and my friend breeds them. Only a trainer observing, can get a fair idea on the purpose of the standing over the baby. Keeping it outside for the few months did not help. He will have some jealousy it is natural. Fortunately he has Lab in him so there shouldn't be a concern. Chows are very protective of their family but right now he probably does not know the baby is family since he was kept outside. Likely he is trying to figure out what this new noisy thing is and why it took his place in the home. Do not leave them alone and I would recommend not allowing it to stand over the baby. But as well do not push it away or yell at it when it gets close. Allow it to sniff and lick a little and then say 'enough' and have it stop. Play it safe since NO ONE can say for sure what is going on in it's head.
Reply:Congrads on the birth of your son.
She sees you being protective of the baby so she's most likely following your cue and being protective as well. At the same time it's not a behavior I would want to encourage. Your dog needs to see the baby as another alpha and being allowed to stand over the baby while the baby lays on the floor could possibly be teaching the dog that she is the alpha.
Just my opinion and I am sure you will get lots of good advice on this question. Good luck.
Reply:I'm not sure what is going on but sounds like she's mothering your son. My dogs do that when there is a baby in the house. If someone they don't know comes around the baby they can become protective. We also took precautions when our children were born. Our dogs stayed inside the house and very much stayed a part of the family. My dad had brought a dirty diaper home from the hospital so they could get her scent. My dogs were very protective
Reply:Without actually seeing her, it is impossible to say for sure.
If you are concerned, I suggest you have an experienced trainer or behaviorist observe her.
Reply:She could be protecting him but, honestly, without seeing what's happening it's hard to tell. Since the safety of your baby is involved, I'd suggest that you have a trainer observe the dog with your child to either put your mind at ease or head off a problem before it becomes unmanageable.
Reply:I agree with the answers that you have gotten regarding it is hard to tell what your dog is doing if we are not there, however in the wild, an Alpha wolf will stand over a sub wolf to show dominance!! Is your dog really standing OVER your son?/ That MIGHT be a dominance issue.
flower
Please help me out..i need it !?
okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did. he commented my good guy friend mentioning coming to visit us..and now he is broken up with his gf for good. but
i texted him a few weeks ago and he didnt answer. and then i texted him and myspace messaged him the other night and he didnt answer
either. do you think hes afraid to get involved? im confused
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
4. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
5. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and be friends with benefits
6. and why isnt he talking to me now..if he just wanted to hookup and be done with me..why did he text me after?
Please help me out..i need it !?
he's playing you
Reply:He sounds like a game player. Don't be bothered with him any more then just being friends. Don't call him, let him call
you from now on. Drinking isn't going to help matters either.
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did. he commented my good guy friend mentioning coming to visit us..and now he is broken up with his gf for good. but
i texted him a few weeks ago and he didnt answer. and then i texted him and myspace messaged him the other night and he didnt answer
either. do you think hes afraid to get involved? im confused
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
4. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
5. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and be friends with benefits
6. and why isnt he talking to me now..if he just wanted to hookup and be done with me..why did he text me after?
Please help me out..i need it !?
he's playing you
Reply:He sounds like a game player. Don't be bothered with him any more then just being friends. Don't call him, let him call
you from now on. Drinking isn't going to help matters either.
What do you think is going on?
okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did. he commented my good guy friend mentioning coming to visit us..and now he is broken up with his gf for good. but
i texted him a few weeks ago and he didnt answer. and then i texted him and myspace messaged him the other night and he didnt answer
either. do you think hes afraid to get involved? im confused
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
4. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
5. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and be friends with benefits
6. and why isnt he talking to me now..if he just wanted to hookup and be done with me..why did he text me after?
What do you think is going on?
he's playing you
get well flower
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did. he commented my good guy friend mentioning coming to visit us..and now he is broken up with his gf for good. but
i texted him a few weeks ago and he didnt answer. and then i texted him and myspace messaged him the other night and he didnt answer
either. do you think hes afraid to get involved? im confused
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
4. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
5. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and be friends with benefits
6. and why isnt he talking to me now..if he just wanted to hookup and be done with me..why did he text me after?
What do you think is going on?
he's playing you
get well flower
Please read and answer for me?
okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
Please read and answer for me?
if its that complicated, dont fuse!
im sorry
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
Please read and answer for me?
if its that complicated, dont fuse!
im sorry
Answer for me ! I'm so confused?
okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
Answer for me ! I'm so confused?
You create new accounts, so you can keep posting and posting this question. STOP! We have seen it a hundred times already. Get over it.!
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
Answer for me ! I'm so confused?
You create new accounts, so you can keep posting and posting this question. STOP! We have seen it a hundred times already. Get over it.!
I'm really confused ! please help me?
okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
I'm really confused ! please help me?
Stop with this story already PLEASE!!!!!
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
I'm really confused ! please help me?
Stop with this story already PLEASE!!!!!
I need help with this for real !?
okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
I need help with this for real !?
'Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone. Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.' Is it really possible to combine independence and interdependence? Much depends on the spirit in which a relationship is entered into. When couples come together through some kind of fear or need, their involvement is serious and sombre. When there is true mutual respect and admiration there is celebration. As you may soon see.
!!!!!!! ¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬ !!!!!
Reply:I think your just a side item sorry
Reply:It sounds to me like he is trying to make sure he has you to go to if things dont work out with this other girl he is seeing. How do you feel about that? To me, it doesnt sound fair to you.
Reply:he can be many things
he might actually like you
or it might of been a spur of the moment type of thing
he also might be a great guy
and he started with her first
and believes that he is obligated to try with the other girl
before you
anniversary flowers
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
I need help with this for real !?
'Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone. Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.' Is it really possible to combine independence and interdependence? Much depends on the spirit in which a relationship is entered into. When couples come together through some kind of fear or need, their involvement is serious and sombre. When there is true mutual respect and admiration there is celebration. As you may soon see.
!!!!!!! ¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬¬ !!!!!
Reply:I think your just a side item sorry
Reply:It sounds to me like he is trying to make sure he has you to go to if things dont work out with this other girl he is seeing. How do you feel about that? To me, it doesnt sound fair to you.
Reply:he can be many things
he might actually like you
or it might of been a spur of the moment type of thing
he also might be a great guy
and he started with her first
and believes that he is obligated to try with the other girl
before you
anniversary flowers
Please read carefully and answer !?
okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
Please read carefully and answer !?
i'm telling you I am not reading that. you need to quit worrying.
the time it took you to type this you could have been proactive and solving your own situation.
Reply:dude. I think you are totally over analyzing. The easiest thing to do is to confront him.
Reply:He sounds like any other guy. He is attracted to you but he also likes this other girl and he wants to get some so obviously while you're away he needs to make it official with her so that she'll put out. In the mean time he is probably planning on trying to hook up with you again. I think he kinda sounds like a creep even though he was supposedly sweet to you. Guys can sweet talk it up if they think it will get them into a girls pants eventually. Its so compllicated and messy i would just leave him be and go for someone with less baggage.
Reply:maybe if you shorten it ill answer...
Reply:Okay. Enough!
I took the time to read it.
(have you considered writing for a soap opera on television[jk]).
Seriously:
1. He might like you. But, he seems to like sex more.
2. He's not being honest w/you. He'll try to get anything he can.
3. He seems to be good at "reverse psychology"~~(he doesn't want to live up to that expectation of being a "player," so he eases into the sexual side, while keeping another woman close. This is "sexual monogamy" ~~there's always someone to fall back on.
++++
Keep in mind, this is just an opinion, based upon what you've written. Nothing more, or less.
**
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
Please read carefully and answer !?
i'm telling you I am not reading that. you need to quit worrying.
the time it took you to type this you could have been proactive and solving your own situation.
Reply:dude. I think you are totally over analyzing. The easiest thing to do is to confront him.
Reply:He sounds like any other guy. He is attracted to you but he also likes this other girl and he wants to get some so obviously while you're away he needs to make it official with her so that she'll put out. In the mean time he is probably planning on trying to hook up with you again. I think he kinda sounds like a creep even though he was supposedly sweet to you. Guys can sweet talk it up if they think it will get them into a girls pants eventually. Its so compllicated and messy i would just leave him be and go for someone with less baggage.
Reply:maybe if you shorten it ill answer...
Reply:Okay. Enough!
I took the time to read it.
(have you considered writing for a soap opera on television[jk]).
Seriously:
1. He might like you. But, he seems to like sex more.
2. He's not being honest w/you. He'll try to get anything he can.
3. He seems to be good at "reverse psychology"~~(he doesn't want to live up to that expectation of being a "player," so he eases into the sexual side, while keeping another woman close. This is "sexual monogamy" ~~there's always someone to fall back on.
++++
Keep in mind, this is just an opinion, based upon what you've written. Nothing more, or less.
**
Beet Pulp? With molassas. (SP)?
Hello.
I just bought some beet pulp for my skinnier than normal horse. I have heard through several people and on here it is a good thing to use to add some weight on your horse.
How much should I give him? He isnt really skinny, but you can see his ribs. I would say he is 1100 lbs. He is 15.3 hands if that helps. He fattens up using sweet feed, but as I am sure you all know sweet feed tends to make them a little uncontrollable sometimes.
What should I mix it with? I still have three bags of sweet feed and some cracked corn.(I have never fed my horses cracked corn, so is it ok to give them?
Please let me know your suggestions. I need to get him fattened up before winter comes and honestly he could be so much prettier if he had weight.
I am attaching a picture of him so you can see how skinny he is. Maybe it will give you a better idea on how much to give him.
http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z176/...
http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z176/...
Beet Pulp? With molassas. (SP)?
He is underweight, and it'll probably get worse with the winter. Is he a Thoroughbred and do you live in a climate with cold winters?
I'd give him a 10 or 12% protein grain. I like Country Acres, or something like it. It has a nice mixture of pellets. Three cups of that, and two cups of soaked beet pulp - both twice a day. I'd try that for a few weeks.
Mazola oil is good for weight gain also. About an ounce a day. Also, you might want to look into BOSS. (Black Oil Sunflower Seeds)
Does he get free choice hay? My horses get unlimited alfalfa mix hay. He wouldn't be able to tolerate straight alfalfa, though, so make sure it's mixed if you give it to him.
And of course, I'm sure your vet would have great ideas too. Next time she's out, ask her! Hope I helped.
Reply:for one dont feed them cracked corn! for 2 with the beet pulp give him 6 quarts of it and mix with it 4 pints of sweet feed and mix with some senior feed about 6 pints and mix im pretty sure if he is not a picky eater he will eat it email me and i will tell u more. Ps with the scoopes u can get them in pints and that will help but u have to soak the beet pulp in water over night
Reply:Beet pulp is a good source of fiber and it will not make a horse hot. They can have lots of it. But you need to to soak it in warm water first before feeding it.
Put about half a feed scoop in with warm water let it soak and then feed him that you can top dress it with some sweet feed. Some horses do not like beet pulp and will not eat it very well. Some do not care for the wet feed. i have one that we feed about two cups top dressed dry over her grain. We use a pelleted grain and put the beet pulp over that.
To add weight you can also feed stabalized rice bran or liquid oil. You start samll and ork up to about one cup per feeding with theliquid oils and with the rice bran read the bag.
The rice bran and oil add fat to the diet and fat will not make the horse hot or hyper but adds calories to their diet.
They also make a few suppliments like Weight builder and things like that.
Good luck with him. He is a pretty horse, I love bays.
Reply:we feed beet pulp too. we give them about 1/2 of a coffee can of soaked beet pulp. make sure you soak it because when the horses eat it the moisture in their stomach can cause the beet pulp to expand in their stomachs, which is bad. Go ahead and feed the cracked corn too. 1 pint should be good for your horse but call your vet and see what they have to say:)
i hope this was helpful
Reply:Your horse needs good qualiy protein to build muscle. If you can get a good quality probiotic a few doses of that will also help ensure his gut function is good so he can process his feed properly. I assume you know his teeth are ok. (Giving him a big willow branch to chew on helps with floating the teeth and also stops them chewing fence posts.)
Too much protein is not good - but you need a balance of it in feeds for muscle building. What you DON'T want too much of is carbohydrate or fat - and sugar is a carbo.
I never feed anything with added sugar; feeds with molasses added disguise the taste of the things in it - either food they wouldn't normally eat or moulds on the grain.You are best to make up your own - it works out cheaper as well.
I use shredded beet pulp (which has no molasses), straight oats and lucerne chaff (alfalfa hay chopped) and intermittently I'll add some ground linseed, sunflower seeds and succulents.
For my big horses in winter (these are all resting thoroughbreds or TB crosses) I give 250 grammes of oats, handful of sugar beet (measured dry), 100g flaxseed and 50g seeds and a big handful of chaff. In Spring and autumn when we get a flush of grass I halve that amount and if they're getting too fat I cut it out completely. None of them is ever rugged; they have access to field shelters and although I like them to drop off a little in winter as its natural for them to do that, I never have a problem keeping condition on them.
I feed meadow hay pretty much so they always have some if they want it even when the grass is growing (it provides bulk and they'll always eat it as well as the sweet grass) and they graze brome, cocksfoot, timothy, rye mix pastures.
Small feeds, fed often are always better than one big feed - if you can manage it.
Generally I avoid mixing supplements into their feeds as greed sometimes overcomes their natural tendency to be cautious about what they're eating.
If you need to feed supplements, get a good mix (not one with salt or anything palatable in it) and let him decide what he wants. Always let him have access to a plain salt lick.
If you board with other people, see if you can get them to work the same way and share the costs and the work.
Hope this helps.
PS. I'm sure you know but make sure you soak sugar beet thoroughly; the product I use says it needs 10 minutes only but I always leave it for an hour at least; the normal stuff should always be soaked overnight.
BUT - remember, the horse's staple diet is grass so there's no substitute for good hay and Dr Green.
Reply:I would start with a 3 lb coffee can, plus add water to soak it. But, if you have a problem with him getting hot on sweet feed, you might look into Purina Ultium if it's available in your area. It's formulated to provide energy without making the horse hot, designed for endurance horses. It's pretty high calorie. I've used it on some of my harder keepers, and I really liked the results I got.
Reply:He is definatley not an ideal weight by the looks of things but thats ok, he certainly doesnt look ill by any means.
My suggestion, give him about a cup of soaked beatpulp in the AM and a cup in the PM (a cup might not seem like alot, but beatpulp expands like crazy). Dry beatpulp has been known to cause choking and you certainly dont want that. I would also add in about 1/3 - 1/2 cup of oil with it, and about 1 1/2 cups of a 12% feed and just a handful of sweet feed to make his tastebuds happy (and so you dont waste it if you already have it there). See how this treats him, and go from there if you dont see weight within about a month, up his beatpulp slowly. This might be plenty for them. Just keep a close eye on his weight and you'll eventually find a happy median with his diet.
As far as hay goes, I would amost consider getting a round bale (of good quality, preferably a timothy blend for weight maintenance) for the winter season. If it doesnt get cold, throwing out flakes is fine, and in my opinion unless you'[re riding alot and competitive, alfalfa isnt necessary for weight maintenance. Alfalfa, if good quality can sometimes give them the runs and doesnt always digest well with them, it can be very VERY rich and sometimes doesnt provide them with the adequate nutrition, I know my TB gelding doesnt get alfalfa due to its high energy content and it giving him bad runs. It also makes him a little hott. The best for nutrition and weight maintenance I find, over the winter is a Timothy blend. Preferably, a round bale (again, of good quality hay) and let him go to town on that plus his grain 2X a day. Hard weight keepers can definatley be a challange.
Good Luck! :)
Reply:if you are going to use beet pulp as the main diet staple (not counting hay and grass) you need to feed oats along with it. otherwise you can knock their calcium/ phosphorus ratio out of balance. 3/4 beet pulp: 1/4 oats is a good ratio.
I just bought some beet pulp for my skinnier than normal horse. I have heard through several people and on here it is a good thing to use to add some weight on your horse.
How much should I give him? He isnt really skinny, but you can see his ribs. I would say he is 1100 lbs. He is 15.3 hands if that helps. He fattens up using sweet feed, but as I am sure you all know sweet feed tends to make them a little uncontrollable sometimes.
What should I mix it with? I still have three bags of sweet feed and some cracked corn.(I have never fed my horses cracked corn, so is it ok to give them?
Please let me know your suggestions. I need to get him fattened up before winter comes and honestly he could be so much prettier if he had weight.
I am attaching a picture of him so you can see how skinny he is. Maybe it will give you a better idea on how much to give him.
http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z176/...
http://i195.photobucket.com/albums/z176/...
Beet Pulp? With molassas. (SP)?
He is underweight, and it'll probably get worse with the winter. Is he a Thoroughbred and do you live in a climate with cold winters?
I'd give him a 10 or 12% protein grain. I like Country Acres, or something like it. It has a nice mixture of pellets. Three cups of that, and two cups of soaked beet pulp - both twice a day. I'd try that for a few weeks.
Mazola oil is good for weight gain also. About an ounce a day. Also, you might want to look into BOSS. (Black Oil Sunflower Seeds)
Does he get free choice hay? My horses get unlimited alfalfa mix hay. He wouldn't be able to tolerate straight alfalfa, though, so make sure it's mixed if you give it to him.
And of course, I'm sure your vet would have great ideas too. Next time she's out, ask her! Hope I helped.
Reply:for one dont feed them cracked corn! for 2 with the beet pulp give him 6 quarts of it and mix with it 4 pints of sweet feed and mix with some senior feed about 6 pints and mix im pretty sure if he is not a picky eater he will eat it email me and i will tell u more. Ps with the scoopes u can get them in pints and that will help but u have to soak the beet pulp in water over night
Reply:Beet pulp is a good source of fiber and it will not make a horse hot. They can have lots of it. But you need to to soak it in warm water first before feeding it.
Put about half a feed scoop in with warm water let it soak and then feed him that you can top dress it with some sweet feed. Some horses do not like beet pulp and will not eat it very well. Some do not care for the wet feed. i have one that we feed about two cups top dressed dry over her grain. We use a pelleted grain and put the beet pulp over that.
To add weight you can also feed stabalized rice bran or liquid oil. You start samll and ork up to about one cup per feeding with theliquid oils and with the rice bran read the bag.
The rice bran and oil add fat to the diet and fat will not make the horse hot or hyper but adds calories to their diet.
They also make a few suppliments like Weight builder and things like that.
Good luck with him. He is a pretty horse, I love bays.
Reply:we feed beet pulp too. we give them about 1/2 of a coffee can of soaked beet pulp. make sure you soak it because when the horses eat it the moisture in their stomach can cause the beet pulp to expand in their stomachs, which is bad. Go ahead and feed the cracked corn too. 1 pint should be good for your horse but call your vet and see what they have to say:)
i hope this was helpful
Reply:Your horse needs good qualiy protein to build muscle. If you can get a good quality probiotic a few doses of that will also help ensure his gut function is good so he can process his feed properly. I assume you know his teeth are ok. (Giving him a big willow branch to chew on helps with floating the teeth and also stops them chewing fence posts.)
Too much protein is not good - but you need a balance of it in feeds for muscle building. What you DON'T want too much of is carbohydrate or fat - and sugar is a carbo.
I never feed anything with added sugar; feeds with molasses added disguise the taste of the things in it - either food they wouldn't normally eat or moulds on the grain.You are best to make up your own - it works out cheaper as well.
I use shredded beet pulp (which has no molasses), straight oats and lucerne chaff (alfalfa hay chopped) and intermittently I'll add some ground linseed, sunflower seeds and succulents.
For my big horses in winter (these are all resting thoroughbreds or TB crosses) I give 250 grammes of oats, handful of sugar beet (measured dry), 100g flaxseed and 50g seeds and a big handful of chaff. In Spring and autumn when we get a flush of grass I halve that amount and if they're getting too fat I cut it out completely. None of them is ever rugged; they have access to field shelters and although I like them to drop off a little in winter as its natural for them to do that, I never have a problem keeping condition on them.
I feed meadow hay pretty much so they always have some if they want it even when the grass is growing (it provides bulk and they'll always eat it as well as the sweet grass) and they graze brome, cocksfoot, timothy, rye mix pastures.
Small feeds, fed often are always better than one big feed - if you can manage it.
Generally I avoid mixing supplements into their feeds as greed sometimes overcomes their natural tendency to be cautious about what they're eating.
If you need to feed supplements, get a good mix (not one with salt or anything palatable in it) and let him decide what he wants. Always let him have access to a plain salt lick.
If you board with other people, see if you can get them to work the same way and share the costs and the work.
Hope this helps.
PS. I'm sure you know but make sure you soak sugar beet thoroughly; the product I use says it needs 10 minutes only but I always leave it for an hour at least; the normal stuff should always be soaked overnight.
BUT - remember, the horse's staple diet is grass so there's no substitute for good hay and Dr Green.
Reply:I would start with a 3 lb coffee can, plus add water to soak it. But, if you have a problem with him getting hot on sweet feed, you might look into Purina Ultium if it's available in your area. It's formulated to provide energy without making the horse hot, designed for endurance horses. It's pretty high calorie. I've used it on some of my harder keepers, and I really liked the results I got.
Reply:He is definatley not an ideal weight by the looks of things but thats ok, he certainly doesnt look ill by any means.
My suggestion, give him about a cup of soaked beatpulp in the AM and a cup in the PM (a cup might not seem like alot, but beatpulp expands like crazy). Dry beatpulp has been known to cause choking and you certainly dont want that. I would also add in about 1/3 - 1/2 cup of oil with it, and about 1 1/2 cups of a 12% feed and just a handful of sweet feed to make his tastebuds happy (and so you dont waste it if you already have it there). See how this treats him, and go from there if you dont see weight within about a month, up his beatpulp slowly. This might be plenty for them. Just keep a close eye on his weight and you'll eventually find a happy median with his diet.
As far as hay goes, I would amost consider getting a round bale (of good quality, preferably a timothy blend for weight maintenance) for the winter season. If it doesnt get cold, throwing out flakes is fine, and in my opinion unless you'[re riding alot and competitive, alfalfa isnt necessary for weight maintenance. Alfalfa, if good quality can sometimes give them the runs and doesnt always digest well with them, it can be very VERY rich and sometimes doesnt provide them with the adequate nutrition, I know my TB gelding doesnt get alfalfa due to its high energy content and it giving him bad runs. It also makes him a little hott. The best for nutrition and weight maintenance I find, over the winter is a Timothy blend. Preferably, a round bale (again, of good quality hay) and let him go to town on that plus his grain 2X a day. Hard weight keepers can definatley be a challange.
Good Luck! :)
Reply:if you are going to use beet pulp as the main diet staple (not counting hay and grass) you need to feed oats along with it. otherwise you can knock their calcium/ phosphorus ratio out of balance. 3/4 beet pulp: 1/4 oats is a good ratio.
Poetry Analysis Help!!!!?
I need help doing a poetry analysis on The Invitation by Percy Shelley.....
Best and brightest, come away,
Fairer far than this fair day,
Which, like thee, to those in sorrow
Comes to bid a sweet good-morrow
To the rough year just awake
In its cradle on the brake.
The brightest hour of unborn Spring
Through the Winter wandering,
Found, it seems, the halcyon morn
To hoar February born;
Bending from Heaven, in azure mirth,
It kissed the forehead of the earth,
And smiled upon the silent sea,
And bade the frozen streams be free,
And waked to music all their fountains,
And breathed upon the frozen mountains,
And like a prophetess of May
Strewed flowers upon the barren way,
Making the wintry world appear
Like one on whom thou smilest, dear.
Away, away, from men and towns,
To the wild wood and the downs -
To the silent wilderness
Where the soul need not repress
Its music, lest it should not find
An echo in another's mind,
While the touch of Nature's art
Harmonizes heart to heart.
Radiant Sister of the Day
Awake! arise! and come away!
To the wild woods and the plains,
To the pools where winter rains
Image all their roof of leaves,
Where the pine its garland weaves
Of sapless green, and ivy dun,
Round stems that never kiss the sun,
Where the lawns and pastures be
And the sandhills of the sea,
Where the melting hoar-frost wets
The daisy-star that never sets,
And wind-flowers and violets
Which yet join not scent to hue
Crown the pale year weak and new;
When the night is left behind
In the deep east, dim and blind,
And the blue noon is over us,
And the multitudinous
Billows murmur at our feet,
Where the earth and ocean meet,
And all things seem only one
In the universal Sun.
Poetry Analysis Help!!!!?
what do you need analized?
Best and brightest, come away,
Fairer far than this fair day,
Which, like thee, to those in sorrow
Comes to bid a sweet good-morrow
To the rough year just awake
In its cradle on the brake.
The brightest hour of unborn Spring
Through the Winter wandering,
Found, it seems, the halcyon morn
To hoar February born;
Bending from Heaven, in azure mirth,
It kissed the forehead of the earth,
And smiled upon the silent sea,
And bade the frozen streams be free,
And waked to music all their fountains,
And breathed upon the frozen mountains,
And like a prophetess of May
Strewed flowers upon the barren way,
Making the wintry world appear
Like one on whom thou smilest, dear.
Away, away, from men and towns,
To the wild wood and the downs -
To the silent wilderness
Where the soul need not repress
Its music, lest it should not find
An echo in another's mind,
While the touch of Nature's art
Harmonizes heart to heart.
Radiant Sister of the Day
Awake! arise! and come away!
To the wild woods and the plains,
To the pools where winter rains
Image all their roof of leaves,
Where the pine its garland weaves
Of sapless green, and ivy dun,
Round stems that never kiss the sun,
Where the lawns and pastures be
And the sandhills of the sea,
Where the melting hoar-frost wets
The daisy-star that never sets,
And wind-flowers and violets
Which yet join not scent to hue
Crown the pale year weak and new;
When the night is left behind
In the deep east, dim and blind,
And the blue noon is over us,
And the multitudinous
Billows murmur at our feet,
Where the earth and ocean meet,
And all things seem only one
In the universal Sun.
Poetry Analysis Help!!!!?
what do you need analized?
Does he like me!?
okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
Does he like me!?
You create new accounts, so you can keep posting and posting this question. STOP! We have seen it a hundred times already. Get over it.!
Books
that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i
wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then
i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this
girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang
out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and
gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing
is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny
and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and
then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..
i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so
this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking
things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..
and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to
do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to
ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..
im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never
have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going
to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..
and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without
saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few
days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend
so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and
girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?
and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well
and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so
i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up
for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too
:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text
last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him
saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that
night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back
but never did.
1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?
2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?
3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?
4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?
5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw
he had a missed call from me?
6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?
7. which one would you choose:
-he likes me
-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends
-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item
Does he like me!?
You create new accounts, so you can keep posting and posting this question. STOP! We have seen it a hundred times already. Get over it.!
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Help need name of film??
dont have much to go on but its set in the olden day american, the main character is called Marty (shes blonde), her husband arron dies fallin off his horse. she has no money and its a bad winter to cross through to the city. a nice widowed man with small daughter aks her to marry him and live with them and help him with his little girl missy. anyway they end up falling in love and when winters over she doesnt want to leave. she also ends up having a baby.its a really sweet romantic film, would love to watch it again but have no idea what its called, if anyone can help please, thanks so much!!
Help need name of film??
Love Comes Softly
Help need name of film??
Love Comes Softly
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