Please help me out..i need it !?

okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy


that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i


wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then


i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this


girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang


out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and


gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing


is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny


and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and


then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..


i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so


this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking


things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..


and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to


do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to


ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..


im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never


have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going


to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..


and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without


saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few


days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend


so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and


girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?


and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well


and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so


i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up


for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too


:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text


last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him


saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that


night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back


but never did. he commented my good guy friend mentioning coming to visit us..and now he is broken up with his gf for good. but


i texted him a few weeks ago and he didnt answer. and then i texted him and myspace messaged him the other night and he didnt answer


either. do you think hes afraid to get involved? im confused





1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?


2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?


3. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?


4. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?


5. which one would you choose:


-he likes me


-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends


-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and be friends with benefits


6. and why isnt he talking to me now..if he just wanted to hookup and be done with me..why did he text me after?

Please help me out..i need it !?
he's playing you
Reply:He sounds like a game player. Don't be bothered with him any more then just being friends. Don't call him, let him call


you from now on. Drinking isn't going to help matters either.