Boys (13-20)...I need some advice, and what would you think?

OK...so here's the deal. I'm 13. I'm homeschooled. My mother works at a hotel near my house, so I hang out there all the time. During a cold day last winter, I met someone my age at the hotel. He was really sweet, and I still talk to him. We hung out in the sauna the whole night, because we were really cold. Nothing happened in there. I just put my head on his shoulder. I really liked him, and I still talk to him over the internet. He lives pretty close, about 45 minutes. He'll come back to the hotel again during the summer or winter.


I felt that he liked me...idk, just the way that he looked at me. He stared at me and smiled a lot, and I really liked him too. I wanted to kiss him badly, but do you think that would have been weird if I had? Would he have thought that I was a sl*t or something?


Should I kiss him next time I see him?





But I don't want to drive him away or something by kissing him.


He kept asking me if I had a boyfriend, and tells me when I talk to him if he has a gf

Boys (13-20)...I need some advice, and what would you think?
awww thats sweet andi think he likes u it is obvious but have fun during this summer or winter with him ok!!!
Reply:are u a girl or a boy..if ur a guy then ur gay
Reply:I think you should ask him if he has a girlfriend, if you haven't already. If he said that he doesn't, ask him how he feels about you. Tell him that you love him and ask him if he loves you. Be totally truthful with what you say. If he says that you love him, there is the start of a good relationship.





One warning: Not sure if it is just my ex-girlfriend who is homeschool who is like this, or all homeschooled kids. You might not know some of the slang he uses, or some stuff he does or a lot of stuff he talks about. Be prepared to be confused a lot, and he better be ready to be confused a lot, too. I know that homeschoolers are normally smarter then public schoolers. Just don't get suspicious of him. I know you will think he may be cheating since you don't see what goes on during his school day, but have trust in him, if you two do become girlfriend/boyfriend.





And, btw, kissing him wouldn't turn him away. Sorry if this goes off topic a little. I hope this helped.
Reply:he likes you. its just a kss. kiss him. no matter how many people u kiss u r not a slut. as long as that all u do
Reply:I do think boys think its slutty to kiss some one just cuz u like them. the moment also seemed right for the kiss to.
Reply:babe im older than that but the reson he stayed with you as you no he wonted to do more sounds like ya both were to shy to do wot ya wonted.you be care full out there.i tell ya the next guy ya spend the night with might not be shy.me and you in a sauna all night i would have give you more than a kiss darling.
Reply:I'm 16, just to let you know.





The first thing I could say is to not think about it so much.


It flatters us to know a girl is thinking about us, but not when they worry what could/couldn't happen between us.





Second of all, I'm assuming by the way you're talking this is the the first time you've really felt a connection with a guy like this. Having said that, most of my advice will be based of that.











You should learn to make subtle hints, let him know how you feel without saying it straight out.


For example. "I can't wait to hang out again"


instead of "You know I really like you". If he has any sense he should know you like him, but it's nice to know your thinking of him, plus it'll boost his ego.





another thing to watch out for is how he talks to you, does he flirt, make subtle but slightly sexual comments? Or is it all platonic?








And just for future reference, a guy finds it very attractive when a girl kisses them, it doesn't automatically make a guy thing there gonna get some although it might with some guys.





The fact that he asks about a boyfriend is a great sign too...and the fact that he's volunteering the info of having a gf or not is great too.





I hope I was some help....