Boys (13-20)...I need some advice, and what would you think?

OK...so here's the deal. I'm 13. I'm homeschooled. My mother works at a hotel near my house, so I hang out there all the time. During a cold day last winter, I met someone my age at the hotel. He was really sweet, and I still talk to him. We hung out in the sauna the whole night, because we were really cold. Nothing happened in there. I just put my head on his shoulder. I really liked him, and I still talk to him over the internet. He lives pretty close, about 45 minutes. He'll come back to the hotel again during the summer or winter.


I felt that he liked me...idk, just the way that he looked at me. He stared at me and smiled a lot, and I really liked him too. I wanted to kiss him badly, but do you think that would have been weird if I had? Would he have thought that I was a sl*t or something?


Should I kiss him next time I see him?





But I don't want to drive him away or something by kissing him.


He kept asking me if I had a boyfriend, and tells me when I talk to him if he has a gf

Boys (13-20)...I need some advice, and what would you think?
You are so young! Have fun, don't force anything. I would not go out of my way to kiss him, but saying "hey cutie" wouldn't hurt things. I wish I had those guts at 13! Just be careful, know your limits.... you don't want anything to happen that you will regret.
Reply:im not a guy but i wanna help...ok so he DEF liked you, and if you kissed him he wouldnt think that was wierd he would have LOVED it. and if you say hey cutie to him nxt time on aim then thats rly cute i dont think he would think its wierd
Reply:well if he is giving you looks and he lets put your head on his shoulder then you should probably hang out with him one night and watch some movies and maybe he'll want to kiss you back.





GO FOR IT
Reply:If I was in his situation and you kissed me, whether I felt something or not wouldn't matter. I'd be glad you felt that way towards me, and if I liked you I'd jump on it, and if I didn't I'd explain my thoughts. It's your call, nobody else can really tell you if it's a good decision or not. Just trust your instinct and if you like him, kiss him. A guy will almost never hate a girl for kissing him.