Friday, May 21, 2010

Is she a bad friend?

I really liked this guy, and my friend tried to help me to be with him. My friend would give me advice on what to do and stuff. But behind my back, I found out that she would walk home with him and stuff, and during winter one day she told him that she was "cold" and because he is so sweet, he gave her his jacket. She also told my best friend that she had a crush on him but not to tell me about it. I hate it, I introduced her to him and ever since then she is always flirting with him and giving him cutesy nicknames. SHE ALSO ALWAYS RUNS UP TO HIM AND HUGS HIM IN FRONT OF ME! (and i dont say anything).She would try to set me up with him and stuff...but once I caught her flirting with him, and I kinda got mad and I said loudly to her when i thought he was gone "what were you saying to him?!". And then he actually did hear, and after he told her that he didn't like me anymore because he thought i was the jealous type. I really think i would have been with him if it wasn't for her?

Is she a bad friend?
She is not your friend! Stop wasteing your time being bothered with the both of them. If she was your true friend she would of not flirted with him while knowing that you liked him. And if he really liked you, he would of figured out a way to tell you so. They are both losers and deserve each other. Laugh about it and go on with your life!
Reply:That not who you would call a friend that a back stabber. Your friend liked him from the beginning, she wanted him especially after you say you liked him, she was the jealous one. She the kind of friend, that who have been telling him all kind of bad things about you, so she can get with him. Well you know next time if you are interesting in a guy, don't used your friend to relate message to that person.
Reply:Hmmmmmm, she sounds kind of shady to me. Unless she is just a usually affectionate, touchy feely type, then I would watch my back with her. I don't know how old you all are, but maybe you should catch him when he's alone, and tell him that you'd like to talk to him. Maybe you could explain to him that you really did like him and that you asked your friend to act on your behalf because you were kind of shy, but then you found out that she likes him too and it was really more that you were upset that she hadn't been honest with you as a friend, rather than being labeled the "jealous type". No matter how much you like him, he may be the type that is more interested in a "flirty" or aggressive type of girl. Or he may be understanding and pay more attention to your friends behaviors. I would also talk to my friend if I were you. Tell her that you don't appreciate her dishonesty. Friendship has to be based on mutual trust and respect. If she's telling you one thing, then doing other things behind your back, that's no good. But in her defense, having things in common is probably what made you friends, and unfortunately in this case, you have the same taste in men in common. She may not have intentionally been doing anything wrong, but once she realized she liked him too, she should have told you, or limited the amount of time she was around him. She sounds like she has a hidden agenda. Hope it works out, with the guy and your friend!
Reply:i feel so sorry for you. she tries to be a good friend by giving you the advice but is such a bad friend doing all these stuff. this is a situation i dont know a way to help out. hope the other advice help.......
Reply:that is a bad friend, besides if he liked u then he would have flirted with u.


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