Answer for me !!! URGENT?

okay i met my guy friend a few months ago..but weve hung out 5 times and acts like he likes me. we always spend time talking alone. but i have been trying to get over this other guy


that he happens to be friends with..i was head over heels for him. and this guy knows that. and we hung out 3 times, but i


wasnt interested in him at all. the 3rd hangout..one of my close guy friends tells me that this guy has a thing for me. but then


i left for thanksgiving break and i wasnt really interested in the guy anyways. so over thanksgiving break he starts seeing this


girl, but i dont care because i dont like him at this point. so after thanksgiving break i know hes still seeing this girl but we hang


out and we spent time alone and he offered his jacket when i was cold, and when we were buying snacks he insisted on buying my chips. he layed in my bed that night and


gave me a back massage, and then he put his arm around me, and rested his head on my shoulder. (keep in mind the girl he's seeing


is NOT HIS OFFICIAL GIRLFRIEND..theyre just dating). then last night i hung out with him again cause im leaving to go home for 6 weeks for winter break..and he told me that hes going to come up to ny


and well go to the city together and what not, and once again he was flirting with me differently from everyone else..and


then we layed together and he held me..and then we were flirting and we started hooking up. he did stuff to me. and then we were laughing and hes like..


i just wasnt expecting this to happen..and he said he wanted it to happen, he just didnt expect it. and i was like so


this is a one time hookup? and he kinda laughed and was like no im sure were going to hookup again..were just taking


things slowly so i was like..so you actually come here to hang out? and he was like yeah i do. i wasnt expecting this. so we continued to hook up..


and it was leading to sex. so i said i didnt want to have sex. and he was like..its fine..we dont have to. whatever you want to


do. so then i told him i felt like an asshole and that hes not going to come to ny anymore ..and he was like..yeah i will come to


ny..and he told me i shouldnt feel like an asshole. i told him yeah but most guys would be pissed off right now hes like..


im not most guys..im not mad at all. and he was like..i could hang out with you a billion more times and i dont care if we never


have sex. and he told me that since ive only slept with one guy its something to hold onto..and that a lot more guys are going


to be interested in me because ive only slept with one. and he was really sweet and stuff...and he continued to lay with me..


and then he fell asleep. but i went next door to my friends room..and fell asleep there. and then my two guy friends left..without


saying bye. but i guess they didnt know where me and my best friend were? so now i leave for winter break and a few


days later he has a default pic on myspace of him and this girl that hes seeing. and then they became OFFICIAL boyfriend and girlfriend


so quickly. and i find it strange that im gone now for break for 6 weeks. and hes with this girl. and now theyre official boyfriend and


girlfriend but she was in the picture before me so maybe he had a thing with this girl..and wasnt expecting me and him to happen..and hes unsure of my feelings?


and then last night he texted me cause i was on myspace late..and he was like drunk?:)..and i was like haha you know me too well


and he was like haha nice..and i was like why are you up so late..and hes like i dunno i couldnt sleep and tom im going golfing..so


i was like oh haha have fun and he was like..for sure be careful..and i was like..k will do..and then i said you guys better be up


for hanging out when we get back..and he said..for sure cant wait to come back..and i was like..cant wait to see you guys too


:) im going to sleep goodnight..and he was like night babe. then the next day i just myspace messaged him saying "thanks for the text


last night..i actually do remember haha :) how was golfing?" but he didnt respond. then when i got back to college i texted him


saying hey were back we need to hang out soon..and he texted me back saying..for sure..we will be up. then i called him that


night when i was drunk...and he didnt answer..but he called me back and we talked for awhile and he said he would call me back


but never did.





1. does he like me? like have feelings for me?


2. does he just want to keep hooking up with me and eventually get sex?


3. what is with the other girl?why is she his gf now? is it because im unavailable %26amp; hes unsure of my feelings for him?


4. does he just want sex from me..how can you tell or not tell? if he just wanted sex wouldnt he have pressured me?


5. when he didnt call back..is that bad? did i freak him out? was it good that he texted me back and called me back when he saw


he had a missed call from me?


6. do you think that he likes me as just a friend or as more than a friend?


7. which one would you choose:


-he likes me


-he just wanted to hookup and still wants to be friends


-or he just wanted to hookup and he wants to keep hooking up and keep me as a side item

Answer for me !!! URGENT?
you're obsessed, get a life
Reply:1. He may have liked you for a while but the way you treated him must have changed his mind.


2. I don't think so, as long as he has a girlfriend.


3. It's because you kept him in the dark for so long. He didn't know what to do since you didn't clearly convey your true feelings.


4. No, because if he did, he wouldn't bother spending so much time with you just to hang out.


5. It might be that he never got around to it. You didn't put him in shock or anything, just that he is already preoccupied since he already has a girlfriend. It's good of him to continue texting you, he still considers you as a friend.


6. As of now, no. He already has a girlfriend and he doesn't know whether it was clear to ask you out or not. But if he ever does break up, then things will change.


7. I believe that he actually cared about you. If he wanted to just hook up with you simply, he wouldn't even have bothered texting you.
Reply:Too long, whatever your question was, good luck.
Reply:1. i think he does have feelings for you but hes unsure you have them for him


2. i dont think he does otherwise he wouldnt so calm about the no sex thing


3. yes i think you should make it clear to him how you feel i think this girl could be a way to get over you


4. yes if he truely wanted sex that bad he would of been angry or pressured you into it


5. yes i think calling back and replying is a good sign


6. i think he definetly likes you more than just a friend


7. HE LIIKES YOU!!





x good luck x
Reply:Forget him and move on.
Reply:heres a theory for you ladies....if hes not busting down the door to see you hes not worth your time...he wont make you and he wont break you..be strong move on
Reply:sorry i think he just wants to hook up until he eventually has sex with you. If he really cared he would have said bye, he would answer you text and he would do anything he could to be in your good books. If you completely back off see how much he pursues you without encouragement from you, then see how much he likes you. Your not in a rush are you?





Another thing, do you really like him?


Or are you in love with a lovely night you had?





Don't forget he is the friend of your ex who you were trying to get over and is that a good thing for a friend to do?
Reply:go after him and make him your own

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