Boys (13-20)...I need some advice, and what would you think?

OK...so here's the deal. I'm 13. I'm homeschooled. My mother works at a hotel near my house, so I hang out there all the time. During a cold day last winter, I met someone my age at the hotel. He was really sweet, and I still talk to him. We hung out in the sauna the whole night, because we were really cold. Nothing happened in there. I just put my head on his shoulder. I really liked him, and I still talk to him over the internet. He lives pretty close, about 45 minutes. He'll come back to the hotel again during the summer or winter.


I felt that he liked me...idk, just the way that he looked at me. He stared at me and smiled a lot, and I really liked him too. I wanted to kiss him badly, but do you think that would have been weird if I had? Would he have thought that I was a sl*t or something?


Should I kiss him next time I see him?





But I don't want to drive him away or something by kissing him.


He kept asking me if I had a boyfriend, and tells me when I talk to him if he has a gf

Boys (13-20)...I need some advice, and what would you think?
Don't worry if he liked you, he did or else he's super friendly. but I'm that kind of guy and I would do that just to be nice. if he is just a super friendly guy then most likely (no matter what he says on IM) he doesn't have a gf. the thing is girls (at least that i know) assume the nice guy has a gf... yeah. :(


But, either way he probably likes you judging on how similar his actions were to mine.... i wonder if i know you.


anyway, go for it. most likely he just can't come up with a "cool" way of saying the same thing. so hurry before he rights you some totally indirect "love" note or has complete mental breakdown... or tries and totally messes up.... yeah....


good luck. and have fun with it... and don't stress. (go for it)


P.S.;IMing it helps
Reply:well im a guy and i would want u to but not if i had a gf
Reply:Ask him about it. If you are nervous about kissing him, ask him if he likes you first. Really, its what you are willing to risk. I'm sure he wouldn't stop talking to you if you liked him. If he didn't mind ya'll flirting I'm sure he won't have a problem with you liking him. If he has a gf, don't kiss him. Just see how it goes next time, and when you feel the time is right tell him you like him and see what he says. If he doesn't like you (which probably is not the case), just tell him you don't want this to come in the way of ya'll's friendship and you like having him as a friend. If he does like you too, things will move on from there.





Good luck!

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